I use to be all about myself and what I wanted in sex, I'm just looking for a new angle that might make me more at ease, the more I'd be all about what I wanted he more ladies know exactly that your are like that, so I was looking to change at a core level and see what I'd learn if I really really put her first. NOW CAN THIS THREAD DIE, Looking back over it I say some pretty dumb shit even though my intentions where/are good.