Quote Originally Posted by EbelEyes
Calmly discuss about things, don't fight!

And no more nasty words!

Those hurtful words need to go because even if you didn't mean it, and the other person knows that too, it doesn't change the fact that it still hurts.

Always remember if tempers start to rise...

...that she is your everything.
yeah very true about the nasty words, they will stop! thanx for the advice...thanks everyone, now that I'm showered, I'm going to take the dog for a walk and smoke a pinner to relax a bit and think all this through....I want a happy marriage again.....thanx again everyone that posted...