I'm so fucked up right now.....

[2600HERTZ]

I read this just now man....I am a really empathetic person....I really felt like I was feeling the same pain. I am really sorry for your situation!

[Skink]

Sorry I got to ask,,,why is she working and your at home???

the BIGGEST problem today is people make a lifelong commitment without really knowing each other... Just saying I'm not happy is not going to cut it so she needs some comunication skills... You can't even begin to blame yourself until she spills... You can become a better person and that benefits all around you and that is grand but,,,that may not even be what's eating at her... Most of the time when there is a communication problem the people are afraid to talk and often sidestep the truth because they are afraid to say it... if you are loud she may verywell be intimidated and that is the death card because it will take a whole lot of time to reverse a mess like that,,,just like a scared dog they don't unscare easy... I go in this direction because you say you yell a lot...

Does she have a close friend??? You may want to talk to that friend... My wife did not say much ,,,I came home from work one night and there was a 3 page letter chicken and homemade corn fritters and no her,,,she never to this day was able to communicate her true feelings face to face,,,things might of been different if she could or did...

all this leads to one important thing don't beat around the bush,,,Find the truth!!!

[potsmokingnome]

Thanx again for all the advice!

but I must apoligize for unloading in here the way I did...I proably shouldn't have posted at all. but thanks for responding none the less..