Feeling like shit, need to talk to someone.

[bowloffun]

Most, if not all of us, have gone through something similar. Your girl always seems like THE one and like there is no other better. But after you get your next girl you'll see that SHE seems like THE one too. That's how it works. Pick yourself up and go meet someone else.

FYI I've been through that before AND worse. The girl of MY dreams died of cancer in 2005. I felt like ending my own life but I pushed on through it. I'm still here. Not as happy but still here and hoping to someday find someone even half as good as her...

[geonagual]

You know what you gotta do
It is time to seek the truth. You may be torturing yourself for nothing.

As spike lee would say

"Do the Right Thing"

for you!

[LazySmoking420]

All I can say is, You'll never completly get over her. You can only try to replace her with tons of other women and numb the pain with drugs and alcohol and than and only than can you grit your teeth and bare it.

That's what I did... Still havent gotten totally over it

[Verde Es Dios]

Just try to move past it. There are tons of other girls out there, I was with a girl and really messed it up and was pretty pissed at myself. The best way to get over it was listening to music and reflecting on what messed it up. I have found someone twice as nice. Just try to push it out of your mind with other things, you'll never forget her that we know but just use a picture of her as some rolling paper or something, sure it'll taste like shit but it'll still be a cool way to end it all.

[Frivolous248]

I have no one to talk to right now, and i feel so bad, it's like everything i've got means nothing, whats the point?

I split up with my long term girlfriend in 2005. It was hard but i pulled myself through it. Then we got talking again last year, and it opened up all the old wounds. I went of the rails, and even though i dont want to admit it i got depresed. I love this woman, more than anything in my life. I'd give up weed for her, i'd die for her.

She felt the same about me, untill it went pear shaped.

And then tonight, i tried to talk to her, just to see if she was alrgiht, how life was treating her, and she just said she couldnt talk and she'd talk to me later.

We've always been civil, we always sent texts to each other for our birthdays and christmas, and this year, i sent her one, and she didnt bother replying..

I dont know what i feel, i just feel lost. I feel like im broken.

Nothing means anything anymore because all i want is her. I'f give everything up for her.

out of the handful of gals i've been with she was the one i wanted.

We pictured us getting married, kids. the lot.

We had it all planned out. My life was going to be perfect.

Im just rambling, im sorry, i just needed to say all this stuff to someone, i just miss her so much. And i know shes not comming back.

I supose im feeling all the depression i had before, x10.

She was the only one for me, im never going to find someone as smart, funny and beautiful as her. She was perfect, in every way. It was like i'd written down what i wanted in a woman and she was it.

I've lost the best thing i've ever had in my life.

Try telling all this to her?

[spliffstar22]

you gotta see her face to face, straight, you'll be able to observe just how she feels about you, and talk to her about it, or you'll always be wondering, what could have been.............

[2600HERTZ]

I had a similar experience awhile back...And I still think about the girl and love her(though I have learned to shift to a different type of love). But I have finally put myself back out there, and met other girls and realized there is so much potential with other girls for me, that I stopped obsessing about what couldve been.

[Purple Banana]

That's gotta be hard, LIP. I can't imagine what sorrow you're feeling. I've major depression, and some days, it literally seems like there is no purpose in living. And I don't think I will ever crawl out of that hole.

But then I get over whatever I'm brooding about, and I can't see how I could have been that depressed and apathetic the previous day. It's hard, LIP. But the good times overrule all, and I hope you don't struggle with this all in your mind. Talk to friends, family members, even a counselor if you need to.

We'll always be here for you.

AND GEE, THANKS GUYS FOR SAYING WOMEN CAUSE SO MUCH PAIN THAT IT'S BETTER TO BE RUN OVER BY A TRUCK THAN TO GET INVOLVED WITH ONE OF US. MAKES ME FEEL REALLY GREAT MYSELF.

J/k...

[Skink]

a bottle of tequila and a couple limes is all you need...

[crudemood]

I went through something like that too Lip.
It really hurt like nothing I've felt before, life just seemed useless after that.
Years after I still have dreams about it and though I hardly think about it during the days.
Give it some time, I know it seems unbearable right now. I know you've probably heard this before but time heals all...
I hope you feelbetter soon, love hurts, you're not alone.
*hug*