I think this topic is ridiculous.

Of course people are going to give someone compliments in this situation. Why? Because for the most part people here are really nice. It just seems as if this is a way to fish for compliments. And if compliments from faceless people on an internet forum have significant bearing on your self-esteem, I'm sorry, that's a little sad.

No, Ammie. You are not a beached whale. You look very good.

I'm sorry, but I just have to be honest and call it like I see it.