i say... kick his ass.... tell him that you feel resposible for him, because you cant stand to loose him... and that you think he should wait a year... and that after he turns 18, and possibly graduates, that maybe he can come and try staying on your couch for a while... so that he maybe will have a better chance of maybe finding a job... and he could help you out with getting by on rent and what not(from what ive read you seam like your in debt past your eye balls) so you guys could both benifit from it...