Haha, well I made my decision, I'm living down here. The weekends I am supposed to see my mom I will most likely be hanging out with my friends, I still have to go back home to get my shit, and not really to be a dick but I will be sure to say something to him. Probably something along the lines of, "if you ever threaten me again I will fucking kill you, or perhaps If i would have known the cop was going to be a total waste of my time I would have easily hit you right in the jaw". Ya I haven't seen anyone from these school systems since about 4th grade so it should be interesting. It's time for a change, I'll be driving soon I can still see those friends, thanks everyone for the advice It did help out a lot. Now I just have to think of a way to try and convince my dad that I know he smokes and hopefully he will be cool with it, maybe me taking a break for a little bit like I said, then getting a job (passing the piss test) will help out that decision. Anyone know any other good ways to try and convince him?