Advice Needed

[higher4hockey]

how would your pop feel about you moving in ? have you talked to him about that?

[Slither]

Oh ya, he doesnt care he just wants me to make up my mind, and I need to like really soon, school starts tuesday, and he has to get my papers for school tommorow if we do it this way. Would sacrificing my friends, at least to the point where i might be able to only see them on some random weekends, be worth moving in with my dad, who smokes and most likely will be cool with me and eventually give in, plus better school, better girls, better weed :jointsmile:. I cant decide shit on my own I always get other people to do it for me, or atleast help me.

[GanjaBob]

I dont think that the boyfriend was that out of place. You disobeyed their house rules and punched a hole in their wall. i would be fucking pissed too. I think that if you want to live with your mom you should, just go outside and smoke and at least act like you respect them. If you would rather live with your dad then dont hesitate. All im trying to say is unless you own the house just show some respect.

[Slither]

I do respect his rules he usually doesn't say shit, then out of the blue he wakes me up at 12:30. Couldn't he have waited until I wake up, I go outside to smoke or lean out my window its not like a toke up in my room. IF he would have sat down and been like you punched a hole in the wall, you need to fix it I wouldn't have a problem, now I am not going to pay for shit. But threatening me to my face to the point of anger, then telling a cop that i am a pothead and trying to get me in trouble crosses a line. He told me to leave, I left, then he tells me to come back half way down the driveway, because he knew he could have gotten into trouble, I agree I took it the wrong way I shouldnt have punched a hole in the wall, but that house isn't all his, its just partially his. My mom owns the other half, and he has no right telling me what to do and what not do, do you see what I am getting at?

[GanjaBob]

Yeah your story sounds very familiar to me. Just look at it from your familys point of view as well then decide.

[xmk]

honestly, you probably need to sober up for at least a couple days and get your head clear. Thats my advice. Its pretty retarded in my opinion that all this is happening because of weed, and i dont mean because your parents are making a big deal of it, i mean because your making weed a factor in your decisions... weed should never be a factor of any kind in any decision whatsoever. If you dont want to move into your dads place because you wont have anyone to smoke weed with and you wont be able to find weed regularly than your looking at this in completely the wrong way. You need to do whats best for you both physically and mentally... not whats best for your smooking routine.... Weed can be a very good thing but when you let it start getting in the way of your decisions and life than thats when its bad......just do whats best for you man, not whats best for getting high

[Slither]

I'm not putting it all like that xmk, just a little bit of it. Not all of my friends where I live at now are stoners, the regrets are mostly just the fact that I have to change things around. No more friends period including the stoners basically. But Ya I am most likely just going to move in with my dad, and those weekends I was supposed to go to his house, I would go to my moms house, but mostly likely just see my friends and whatnot instead at least for a little bit. Now I just gotta worry about this new school, haven't seen anybody from this area that goes to school since about 4th grade. It's going to be different I know that much, probobly end up getting fucked with i dont care i wont put up with it, hopefully theres some cool people there

[Slither]

Now I have to end a 4 month relationship, that ought to be fun. The moving thing might also be a good thing anyways due to the fact that I was going to quit for 2-4 weeks let my tolerance build back up from a day to day basis, just be different. I took some shit too serious I see now, taking pills with liquor and shit, I feel like hitting myself now. My chest hurts like a bitch from that tequila and hydrocodone too...

[xmk]

Change can be good sometime... i bet youll dig it and be happier after you get used to it. haha also remember using restraint can be a good thing. I only smoke on the weekends, during the week i go to college(earning a masters degree) and work damn near full time, i dont smoke during the week because i dont want to fuck anything up but when its time for the weekend it makes the weed that much more amazing

[Dibiticus]

dinwiddie lol, but for realz you should have told the cop that your moms boyfriend tried to molest you and that he beats you