If I were you I would go live with your dad, just because of your moms boyfriend. You were wrong in how you treated your mom, but I think he was more wrong in how he treated you (unless you treated your mom worse than what you said). Be nice to your mom. It may not seem this way now, but all she really wants is for you to be healthy and happy. It might be better for your relationship with her if you didnt live with her. Its not as hard to get along with people when you don't see them everyday. Saying you cant until you're 18 isnt that big of a deal. When they legalize it thats how its going to be. And dont plant coke on your moms boyfriend. Thats stupid and mean. Good luck