i know exactly how you feel. its especially bad when your certain they would never do anything like that, and then all of sudden shit goes bad and they have this great big thing to use against you. but like you said, be ready for that visit proudly with peppers growing. hopefully this wont sour your desire to continue growing herb once your situation quiets down.

Better yet, move out here to sunny northern california and bath in the sunshine that is practically legal cannabis growing.