when I was moving to a new apartment, my dad was hellping me move, and he found roaches in my ashtray lol he thought I had quit smoking pot after highschool, I told him I did quit, i just started up again lol! when he found out when I was in highschool (my step sister ratted me out) he yelled at me for quite sometime, then when I decided to go for a walk (after I slammed my bedroom door) he he ran downstairs and grabbed me by my throat with one arm, and slammed me into the wall , and yelled at me again lol That was one of the only few times my dad ever laid a finger on me. He was a hipicrit though cause he smokes pot too..sheesh