Quote Originally Posted by d00d557
But how weird does it feel, at the first question. Do you use drugs? Then I say, yeah mom marijuana. It just feels like I might be giving myself away when they're on the verge of letting it go or something. Just feels like its not clearly laid out to happen a certain way. If she asks one more time I'm going to say what I should have said. I heard a really weird noise and I went ouside to see what was making it. Like an animal or something
lol... they are your parents... they're NOT going to let it go.. you're just holding on to blind hope.... (not sure if that's really a phrase, but blind faith doesn't exactly fit here )

and yes, some parents only want to give you hell, i'm not denying that... but from you have told us so far, and by using logic, it sounds to me like your mom just wants you to be honest with her... yes, things may be akward/difficult for the first few days afterwards... but generally people in your exact position (with the attitudes you've described of your parents) it turns out way better in the end when you came clean.... hell for all you know both your mom and step dad toke up as of right now... they may be alot more accepting then you give them credit for.. it's only natural to be afraid and to hide it... but natural doesn't mean better....

i don't like to steer people down the wrong roads... but it's pretty easy to tell the parents who are going to make your life a living hell after you admit it... and the ones who are going to be atleast halfway understanding... honestly, if i was you i'd come clean... i'd tell her the truth and the whole truth, wouldn't sugar coat it or anything... but that's just me..