OK well i told my dad i smoked. He is pretty much my moms little helper. He makes no decesions and has no say in anything, he is merely a messenger. He does what she wants because she controls everything. Its quite sad. So i just told my dad one day and he was like i cant tell your mom blah blah blah. HE just didnt wanna keep it from her. He told me to not smoke and stuff but he realized that i would smoke regardless of what he said. Its nothing personal, its just that i am going to continue my lifestyle. O and my family is extremely catholic, im surprised i dont go to catholic school. Just do your best to explain things calmly.