w-t-f? You "love" her but you would cheat on her and take her virginity? A girls virginity is an important thing to her, don't be a dirtbag and sleep with her if you don't really love her; which you obviously DON'T or else you wouldn't even consider cheating on her. If she read what you're saying on here I bet she would dump your ass. Leave the poor girl alone and let her find someone that really cares about her.