Kinda like Darkhorse's thread....

[CUPNOODLES]

im not....i do love her but she noez im a horny little bastard n its hard 4 me 2 go atleast a week w/ out atleasting beating my meat

[napolitana869]

if you'd really cheat on her than you dont love her.

[dutch.lover]

no like shes told me she wants to.....

This is exactly what i was like when I was a virgin. I told my boyfriend after he had asked me a couple times if I wanted to have sex, "Listen, I WANT to have sex, I am just not ready yet, I don't know why, but I will tell you when I am." And I did. So she will let you know. Just because she wants to have sex doesnt mean she is ready, as you are finding out.

[OniEhtRedrum781]

Like everyone else said, she's probably not ready yet. Just give it a few weeks and make another attempt, and just because you've already talked about it doesn't me you should stop, consistency will also help

[Skink]

No means yes,,,the answer is date rape...

[stinkyattic]

im not....i do love her but she noez im a horny little bastard n its hard 4 me 2 go atleast a week w/ out atleasting beating my meat

So keep on beating it. Durrrrr... how hard is that to figure out?

Or go find someone else... since you are considering cheating you obviously don't love her... and you have no business telling her that you DO and then taking her virginity anyway. WTF!!!

I hate when kids come on here and ask a question, then basically wait until someone gives them the answer they obviously wanted to hear all along!

[Ibu Jari]

My god. You can't go a week with out doing it yourself, DO IT MORE OFTEN LEAVE THE GIRL ALONE.

Sex does not make or break a relationship.

[WordUpMuffin]

w-t-f? You "love" her but you would cheat on her and take her virginity? A girls virginity is an important thing to her, don't be a dirtbag and sleep with her if you don't really love her; which you obviously DON'T or else you wouldn't even consider cheating on her. If she read what you're saying on here I bet she would dump your ass. Leave the poor girl alone and let her find someone that really cares about her.

[Prozac fairy]

hmmm then shuld i cheat on her cuz ive been on a 9 month dry spell here n it looks like my dicks gonna run away cuz im neglecting itz needs.....

let me level wit u...i kinda went thro the same thing but lil different...i have a boyfriend i have ben wit for 10 months now...i do love him but it was only monday i slept with another guy i met wen clubbing. To be honest i didnt feel guilty but now i fel guilty as fuck. Its not worth cheating if ur actually in love becoz u'll regret it sooooo bad.

As for ur girlfriend...u need to make her feel real comfortable, like wen ur makin out touch her gently between her legs teasing her and give her oral...if she really enjoys she will probably wana have sex shortly after. But remember...concentrate on her first...make her feel at ease, shes probably really conscious about herself...since its her first time so compliment her, kiss her and stuff while tellin her.

Good luck dude

[CUPNOODLES]

I thought about what prozac said and.....I wont cheat on her because i talked to my friend and he went through the same thing a couple years back and he said the he regretted cheating on her and that that was the thing that broke them up.....thanks for the USEFUL advice prozac....oh n btw muffin i do love her....but wen u get blue balled 9 times in 1 week....5 out of the 9 times u swear ur in.....come talk to me other wise stfu