Quote Originally Posted by ValkyrieAg
When you have sex at 15, you don't discuss it like normal people. You don't have the capacity to discuss it. Yeah im in my early 20s and can discuss it before I nail me a hussy....but thats different. Do you really think they are going to sit across from each other and discuss their sexual future intimacy....as virgins?

Maybe that reflects some brady bunch episode, but that hardly represents real life.

Its pretty basic....find her limit. Keep going, keep taking off clothes, and when an objection is made (or not).....respond accordingly. Yall both already know what you want. All talking will do is fuck that up and make it awkward.
Then if your so 'mature' about you, you should know that your suggestion of finding her limit is way out of line.

Not only might that pressure her into going further than she intended, but she may not know HOW to say no. Your assuming she's talked to a parent or another 'parent figure' and has decided what she will and won't do, and how to protect herself. She may be completely unprepared for 'finding her limit'.

Think twice before you do this yourself. I know plenty of 20somethings who are still quite naieve about sex and relationships and have regretted many things because of that kind of action.