3some tonight

[canuck grower]

Thanks for your comments, Canuck G. I do freely admit that part of what motivated me to start in here on Smoking D was some previous posts he'd written about participating in running trains on girls. That concerned me a great deal more than the concept of a threesome. I'll try and give him the benefit of the doubt, but I still don't think he or Big Smoke gets the message about not using girls. I don't think they have any concept of how not to do that, judging from their responses.

Fair enough. I haven't read their other posts since I'm new, so yeah I am commenting with less context to go on than others here such as yourself.

Running trains is definitely a whole different story and I think your points on her being messed up even if she's a sober, willing participant are right on 90% of the time. But even in that situation it's still their choice to make, whether or not it's the "right" one or whether or not you or I would do it.

I'll be the first to admit that for a young guy I have fairly traditional values compared to many other North Americans. I'm all for experimenting with sex though don't get me wrong.

My question is why the hell would anyone want to run a train in the first place. The threesome is all good, (And fun) :thumbsup: but that train running is kinda nasty imo! I'd rather call good old rosey palm than to make it with a girl after she's already gone a few rounds w a bunch of men, ya know?

Of course, I'm the selfish type, and don't like sharing.

Yeah I don't get turned on by the thought of fucking a chick 5 of my friends just fucked, but hey to each their own right? And that's just the thing. Whether or not we think it's hot to run trains, have sex with other guys, or whatever else doesn't diminish anyone else's right to like it and do it with other willing participants. Who are we to judge right? We're probably just as "fucked up" in some ways in their eyes.

Eh, if thats what you've made up your mind to believe then it would be pointless for me to try to persuade you. I know what type of girls i mess around with and thats all that matters to me really. It sounds nice to think that us "dirty" "digusting" guys only hook-up with girls who are depressed and have low self esteem. But at the end of the day its not true. Girls like sex just as much as guys but ususally the guy is looked down upon after everything goes down. Its the way society is and its not going to change. Peace.

This is a very good point here. I am a guy and I don't understand why anyone would want to run a train on a chick, but some guys do like that! So just as you (badgirl) and other women can't understand why some chick would want to she may just be a kinky, freaky slut who likes to get her snooch pounded by 10 guys on a Friday night. It's not our place to judge them for liking that. If there are emotional repercussions then they will have to deal with their decision later.

To start giving them flak on here without knowing the full situation is jumping the gun in my opinion.

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