This is how I know you don't get it. Nowhere did anyone say anything about your being either dirty or digusting--or about girls not liking sex. What we're taking issue with is the concept of using a girl for what you can get over on her for. And that's where the low self-esteem comes in for the girls. Ladies who allow that to happen don't generally feel good about themselves.

Perhaps you don't actually do that. Maybe you have actual ongoing relationships with your ladies and know them as people and friends instead of just using them for sex. If that's the case, great. I'm glad for both you and them. But if your understanding of them is as limited as your understanding of what's been said in this thread is, then I don't have much hope for you--or for their respect for themselves. Peace to you, too.