Actually, what those of us who're grown up enough to see this from a slightly wider perspective are objecting to isn't the sex. It's the using that's going on. The gotta-get-ass-no-matter-what-the-cost attitude toward women. Sex is fine. Being used is what does lasting harm. Sure, the ladies may seem to put themselves in that situation willingly--and here I'm talking mostly about pairs who engage in threesomes but possibly even train-runners--but most of them may not yet even be self-aware enough to know they're behaving in a way that's not psychologically healthy for them down the road.

I find a threesome a lot less troubling than a train-running, frankly. And you've done previous bragging about train-running, Smoking D. It's fairly easy if you think about it from this perspective. Imagine yourself the father of, say, an 18-year-old girl. Or the older brother of one. Or just a good friend who likes and respects women. Now imagine how you'd feel if you learned your daugher/sister/friend had gotten wasted at a party the night before and had a group of 5 or 6 guys have sex with her, one after another, when she was too wasted to know what she was doing. Now can you see how it might be perceived as an intimate activity that's not entirely healthy for her? Back when I was teaching, I had a young student to whom this happened. She was not quite 15. Got drunk at a party. And basically got nailed by every football player who was there, too. That child was never the same after that event.