3some tonight

[canuck grower]

Whether you realize it or not you guys are getting into how various rights movements have gone far beyond their original intent and the scales are slowly tipping the other way instead of balancing harmoniously. That is an area I'll gladly avoid.

Wow, you idiots are missing the whole fucking point that birdgirl was trying to make. No one is talking about wild SOBER girls. If you have sex with a girl that's drunk, that is actually rape. That's nothing to brag about. Bragging about sex at all is completely trashy and immature, but you, homeboy, take the cake!

You went a little for assuming girls were shitfaced and what not, but I agree with your first thought here. If a girl is drunk it can often be as easy as "I have a dick. Want to go over there?" ... I wouldn't call it rape but that's just a semantic issue and we obviously have different ideas on what that word means.

Smokin' dope: You are young like me and we should be having fun. Sounds like you're having more than I so cool. :thumbsup: Unless you're taking advantage of drunk girls then you shouldn't worry about what these people are saying. It sounds like the chicks your er, tagging, are into it so no worries.

Anyone who is taking advantage of drunk girls: You're a piece of shit and you deserve to be gang raped by elephants. Just because they are drunk doesn't mean it's open season. Pricks.

And before my words are twisted into something I didn't mean, let me clarify that I am not saying any sexual contact with a drunk girl is taking advantage. You know if you're taking advantage or not.

It goes both ways too people. We've all slain a few dragons. Skeletons in the closet and all that right. Drunk guys are taken advantage of as well but they get no sympathy. Oh fuck I started going into a topic I said I would stay away from...

Sorry for the uncaffeinated rambling first thing in the morning. I hope a coherent thought or two slipped in there by mistake. :jointsmile:

badgirl: I agree with most of what you all think and have said, but it seems like SD might deserve a little more benefit of the doubt than he's been given.

[birdgirl73]

Thanks for your comments, Canuck G. I do freely admit that part of what motivated me to start in here on Smoking D was some previous posts he'd written about participating in running trains on girls. That concerned me a great deal more than the concept of a threesome. I'll try and give him the benefit of the doubt, but I still don't think he or Big Smoke gets the message about not using girls. I don't think they have any concept of how not to do that, judging from their responses.

[JunkYard]

My question is why the hell would anyone want to run a train in the first place. The threesome is all good, (And fun) :thumbsup: but that train running is kinda nasty imo! I'd rather call good old rosey palm than to make it with a girl after she's already gone a few rounds w a bunch of men, ya know?

Of course, I'm the selfish type, and don't like sharing.

[big smoke07]

Actually, judging from the attitudes you've already displayed above, I think we can be fairly well assured that you probably do mess around with girls who don't exactly value themselves or maintain high standards about guys who do. You may not know that yet. Heck, you may not ever realize that. But I'd bet good money that that's one of the things that your ladies all have in common.

Eh, if thats what you've made up your mind to believe then it would be pointless for me to try to persuade you. I know what type of girls i mess around with and thats all that matters to me really. It sounds nice to think that us "dirty" "digusting" guys only hook-up with girls who are depressed and have low self esteem. But at the end of the day its not true. Girls like sex just as much as guys but ususally the guy is looked down upon after everything goes down. Its the way society is and its not going to change. Peace.

[birdgirl73]

This is how I know you don't get it. Nowhere did anyone say anything about your being either dirty or digusting--or about girls not liking sex. What we're taking issue with is the concept of using a girl for what you can get over on her for. And that's where the low self-esteem comes in for the girls. Ladies who allow that to happen don't generally feel good about themselves.

Perhaps you don't actually do that. Maybe you have actual ongoing relationships with your ladies and know them as people and friends instead of just using them for sex. If that's the case, great. I'm glad for both you and them. But if your understanding of them is as limited as your understanding of what's been said in this thread is, then I don't have much hope for you--or for their respect for themselves. Peace to you, too.

[canuck grower]

Thanks for your comments, Canuck G. I do freely admit that part of what motivated me to start in here on Smoking D was some previous posts he'd written about participating in running trains on girls. That concerned me a great deal more than the concept of a threesome. I'll try and give him the benefit of the doubt, but I still don't think he or Big Smoke gets the message about not using girls. I don't think they have any concept of how not to do that, judging from their responses.

Fair enough. I haven't read their other posts since I'm new, so yeah I am commenting with less context to go on than others here such as yourself.

Running trains is definitely a whole different story and I think your points on her being messed up even if she's a sober, willing participant are right on 90% of the time. But even in that situation it's still their choice to make, whether or not it's the "right" one or whether or not you or I would do it.

I'll be the first to admit that for a young guy I have fairly traditional values compared to many other North Americans. I'm all for experimenting with sex though don't get me wrong.

My question is why the hell would anyone want to run a train in the first place. The threesome is all good, (And fun) :thumbsup: but that train running is kinda nasty imo! I'd rather call good old rosey palm than to make it with a girl after she's already gone a few rounds w a bunch of men, ya know?

Of course, I'm the selfish type, and don't like sharing.

Yeah I don't get turned on by the thought of fucking a chick 5 of my friends just fucked, but hey to each their own right? And that's just the thing. Whether or not we think it's hot to run trains, have sex with other guys, or whatever else doesn't diminish anyone else's right to like it and do it with other willing participants. Who are we to judge right? We're probably just as "fucked up" in some ways in their eyes.

Eh, if thats what you've made up your mind to believe then it would be pointless for me to try to persuade you. I know what type of girls i mess around with and thats all that matters to me really. It sounds nice to think that us "dirty" "digusting" guys only hook-up with girls who are depressed and have low self esteem. But at the end of the day its not true. Girls like sex just as much as guys but ususally the guy is looked down upon after everything goes down. Its the way society is and its not going to change. Peace.

This is a very good point here. I am a guy and I don't understand why anyone would want to run a train on a chick, but some guys do like that! So just as you (badgirl) and other women can't understand why some chick would want to she may just be a kinky, freaky slut who likes to get her snooch pounded by 10 guys on a Friday night. It's not our place to judge them for liking that. If there are emotional repercussions then they will have to deal with their decision later.

To start giving them flak on here without knowing the full situation is jumping the gun in my opinion.

:twocents: :jointsmile:

[orange floyd]

so did he have the threesome?

[420purpHAZE420]

so did he have the threesome?

haha i was about to say that, wtf happened bro

[Its a Plant]

Well...

I'll say one thing: You learn a lot about people by their opinions on stuff like this. What happened to morals? Some of this stuff is sickening to read.

I need to take a shower after all this. ~

[birdgirl73]

Opinions are like assholes.

What are morals like?

I reckon they're more like intelligence, Billy. Some folks have 'em. Some don't.