Quote Originally Posted by benagain
LMAO

=When you're on a date, except to go home tang-less.
Don't even expect that. Just don't expect anything. When the tang comes to you, it will be that much sweeter.

This is actually the problem that helped me to reach my epiphany. I have this new friend, and she's totally hot, and I totally want to bang her, but I got lost in my sexual desire and forgot how lucky I am to just have her as a friend. Just because sex would be super-awesome doesn't mean friendship isn't awesome too, or that I should feel unsatisfied just being friends with her. If sex ever happens between us, great. If it doesn't, great, I still have a wonderful new friend. Because I don't expect anything out of her, I can really cherish the friendship in a way I could not if I was constantly disappointed that I'm not fucking her.