i don't really give advice very much, except on here... and i try to be very careful with what i say on here, incase they actually take the advice... i don't take advice either... i'll hear the advice and reasons behind it.. but i make up my own mind.. my decision making is usually like 90% mine, 10% advice and that's being generous.... pretty much all of my stupid mistakes are of my own thinking/mind. i tend to ignore my instinct, and i tend to ignore plain logic (not always but it happens... like i'll go to buy a sack, see some sketchy ass stuff or get a bad feeling about it, and do it anyways.. i've lost money that way, and i've been really ripped off that way...