My son found out I smoked when I was 14.He was snooping around my room. I told him I smoked.I didn't think it would be a good idea to lie about it after he found a bong.He is almost 17 now.He says he doesn't care.My daughter is almost 19 and found out about a year ago.I don't know if I handled it well but I just knew I wasn't going to lie about what I do.