you and your son both sound VERY smart!!!


:jointsmile: im unfortunate to have close minded parents, but i still love them so i've learned not to get upset with their "opinion"..everybody eventually learns to be their own individual and THAT'S what is to be expected

but i plan to do the same with my son/daughter...i have a lot of knowledge about every drug and ive seen how parents treats kids and IMO what i would do would try to get them to be SAFE about whatever their doing instead of trying to get them to cut it off..cause any kid wont listen, its just reality..you gotta flood their mind with facts, not with opinion..like extacy for example, if i found my kid with it (granded a respectable age of cource) i wouldnt try to STOP it, id try to get him to be safe with it, cause it can be an amazing drug and overall not negative for you if you do it no more than once a month (based on brain blood flow)...unless it was any drug that turns you into a zombie like some pills and heroin, cause my dad had a severe problem with that and hes quit but to this day, hes not the same