I've recently stoped smoking because I have realized that I was using it to fill a hole in my life. I have no significant other and have rarely ever had that kind of relationship. I am 24 years old. I am not a virgin, but I've had very limited sexual experience. (I've had several one time hookups that were awkward and altogether not very enjoyable) I've only been in a real relationship once and it lasted all of a month. I have always been a little off the pace when it came to these kind of things but I'm about to graduate from college and enter the real world. I am not a bad looking guy. I don't have any weird ticks or stupid habits (other than biting my fingernails). I like being around people and am not overly stressed out about social situations. I just have absolutely no confidence with girls. I don't know where this comes from other than the fact that I have had horrible luck with women in the past. I also get extremely nervous when I do get to an intimate situation with a girl I like. I have had sex before, but it's always been weird and turned out to be a bad idea. I have been internalizing all of this for so long and I am desperately in need of outside opinion. How do I get myself out of this hole? How do I keep all my previous failures and bad experiences from fucking up things with any new prospects. Anyone else heard of anyone else like this? I feel uniquely fucked up.
nevaquit01 Reviewed by nevaquit01 on . Self Fulfilling Dilemma (How do I escape?) I've recently stoped smoking because I have realized that I was using it to fill a hole in my life. I have no significant other and have rarely ever had that kind of relationship. I am 24 years old. I am not a virgin, but I've had very limited sexual experience. (I've had several one time hookups that were awkward and altogether not very enjoyable) I've only been in a real relationship once and it lasted all of a month. I have always been a little off the pace when it came to these kind of Rating: 5