Look at it this way. You're a responsible adult with a steady job while educating yourself at that, who wants to be a father to their child, and that is why you are going to court. Things should go well I hope, a child shouldn't be without a father, and a state that has lenient laws shouldn't be up the ass of someone who just wants visitation rights. kudos to you for wanting to be there for your kid man, fuck the bitch