If you are 25 and your brother is 26 and you are still fighting like kids you both need to get therapy... really I am not being mean.

It is not normal to beat and choke each other at this age. Unless you are both cognitively impaired in which case I'm sorry and you need to talk to your care giver.

I thought this post was from a 14 year old kid.

I'm with Polyrimize....