Arghhh! To maintain a relationship with her, print out the pain booklet and give it to her, you might also want to print out their mj's medical history too:

http://safeaccessnow.org/article.php?list=type&type=135

Also, FYI, these cannabinoid cell clone synthetic pain meds are being submitted to the FDA, CAT 210 and CAT 310; altho it will be about 10 years until thru the process. Naboline, a synthetic THC developed primarily for other qualities (chemo symptoms) has been very effective for pain relief also, and should be available at an earlier date.

It is very good to be prepared for this reaction anyhow, when coming out of the closet so-to-speak.

Good luck!