ya im getting through it fine... i still get sad every now and then but my mom is really sad about it... and it was nice the place where my mom took her gave her flowers and an urn because holly was cremated... and to birdgirl this is the first time that i had ever heard of this happening... idk tho if you dont feel right about it id say dont do it... and yes i put loved but of course i still love her.. it was just a mistake.. and once again thanks everyone for your kind words...