New growers sure do silly things.

When it's a male plant, or, boy plant, you either scrap it and start over, or if you really want to, you fully grow it out to full maturaity, cut, dry, and make hash or oil from it. Males contain little THC though, and it takes a lot of plant matter to get anything worthwhile.

What me and some friends used to do when we found a male in a patch, is we would remove it from the growing area and just place in a sunny area. We didn't bother wasting good lighting on a male plant. If you do that, then you can start another plant and hope for a female.

You don't smoke the leaves either, of a male or female plant. Like I said, make has with the leaves and trimmings and smoke the female buds. The male "buds" are pollen sacks, filled with a yellowish powder, which is their sperm pretty much. It contains no THC either, less than the actual leaves.