if its a girl, bring her to the closest lake youve got around you, and most likley if you live in the right area, they drain it, park your car, and go for a walk with her around the drained lake bed, bring some chairs, pretend your ice fishing and just smoke. houses dont matter, they cant tell what your doing out there, and they dont care, trust me im ive lived on a lake my whole life, and been to manny others, if you live on a lake, ppl think there too good to be involved in waht some one down there is doing.