Perhaps she didn't want you because she sensed the undertones of violence you have in you. Who knows? Sure, it sucks but don't you think in the long run it saved you a lot of grief? Obviously she's just not that into you. I mean think about it, if she was your soul-mate, would she have started dating him? And how is it his fault if she finds him more dateable? You can't have "dibs" on women and chemistry is a funny thing. Why fight over that? If he's your friend, "forgive" him...don't fight him. Cock fighting is just plain ridiculous unless she's the only girl in your city! Peace!