i can't answer your poll lol.. i'm inbetween two answers... it definately is worth having one.... and i'm more inclined to answer the first response... but.. i would have liked to waited til maybe we were a bit better off financially, back then, we were basicly just all around fucked financially, we're actually doing aLOT better now.. it can be really traumatic worrying whether or not you are going to be able to afford your babies needs... in the begining when things were bad.. i'd often go hungry, just to make sure my wife had food to help produce breast milk and so that the baby would have what he needed... when we got on food stamps it was a sigh of relief.... a huge one..

but i'm glad we had this child.. i mean if it had been later on... there's virtually no chance he'd be the same child and i've grown quite attatched to this one i'm sure i woulda loved any child we had just the same tho... i guess, just don't plan to have a baby (like actually TRY and have one) until you're financially stable (and believe me, raising a child isn't cheap lol) use all your government funded help you can... medicare, food stamps, wic... every little bit helps... but it's not very good to have to depend on it... cuz that shit can be cut at any time... and if you are completely dependant upon it.... well you'll be in a bad bad situation if that happens...
slipknotpsycho Reviewed by slipknotpsycho on . Is It Worth It? Just wondering about all you parents out there. Is it worth it in the end to raise a child/children? I've asked many about the highlight of their lives and parents always tend to say it was the birth of their children. Whats your take? :o Rating: 5