So I'm new to this board and thought I'd pop the cherry for this thread... excuse the really lousy pun.

My man believes in the quantity over quality... it's forty mintures standard when I'm really a twenty minutes girl... but if I take over we come to a happy compromise. I feel for stinkyattic... had a man once too who lasted hours with lots of variation, no hour-long, ceiling-staring, monotonous humping. I'm training... er... encouraging change in.... the current man though, and he's picking up real well, so I suppose there is hope that the forty long minutes will turn into an hour of bliss.