Quote Originally Posted by MarzVooolta
Ive been in a longterm relationship with this girl and its pretty serious. If I continue on the path were going on I will prolly end up marrying this girl. We get along in all parts of life and we both have similar career goals and passions. We know were comfortable living with each other for a long time to come...

This girl grew up in a very closeminded, catholic ,overprotected household and pretty much had "sex is bad" jammed down her throat for as long as she can rememeber. So as you prolly already guessed it she isnt very open to sex. She says she wants to experiment and that she likes sex but she feels really awkward and doesnt know how to handle it. Ive tried handling this situation delicately but its really frustrating. Im very into sex and have a hard time explaining this to her to the level that I feel about it. Part of me wants to hold back about sharing things and "showing" her things because Im scared it might completely turn her off. How can I reverse what shes been taught her whole life.

Any girls go through this situation or know someone in this? guys and girls how would you handle it? (please dont post if your going to put some dumbass coment down) Sex is important to me but not so much that it would ruin the bond I have with this girl.

P.S ive had a human sexuality coarse and one thing that I rember about this situation is that some girls dont get turned on or have a good time until there married . From all the teachings there parents gave them
Hey, this is a tough situation but I think I know of someone who can help you out. If you know who Sue Johanson is (talk sex with sue, sunday night sex show) she has a website where you can email in questions, and they get answered by the webmaster of the site. I go on that site everyday and learn a lot because of it, i am sure the guy could help you out or at the very least recommend some books for you and her to check out regarding this subject. here's the link http://www.talksexwithsue.com/forum/index.html

i am sure this will help, definitely check it out.

I would personally recommend the book SEX FOR ONE by Betty Dodson. It's largely about masturbation (as that is what trains women to be good at sex and comfortable with it, and their bodies), but it is really about this woman's travels giving workshops to women who are sexually repressed. It talks about opening them up, and discusses their fears and whatnot. I have read it, but I think someone who is a little scared about sex would benefit from it far more than I did. It's a great book.