My older brother went out with a hardcore Christian for a year and a half. They were really really close but could never have sex. He never tried to convince her simply because he's a good guy and knows she's a bible basher. In the end, their indifferences (her religious hogwash and his free spirit) clashed too many times and they went through a very painful breakup (although mostly for my bro).

At the risk of sounding pessimistic or cynical, if this girl is bent on holding on to those beliefs then I believe it's a lost cause. A narrow minded partner will only cause you grief in the long run. If however she assures you she's willing to be turned then I would just be patient and give it time. It sounds like your pretty close and if that's the case, these things unfold naturally. Give her a lot of space when your getting physical and don't try to charge in there like a horny bastard. You've gotta give her time to get over her hangups and as long as it takes, it'll be worth it in the long run.

I wouldn't recommend taking any drugs beforehand (particularly weed). That's definitely the wrong way to go about this.

EDIT: Also, if it's any help. I was pretty hung up about sex when I got with my girlfriend two years ago. I was nervous and hesitant simply because I didn't know very much about it and didn't feel those emotions. She waited patiently for me for 6 months before we took it one step at a time. Now, without going into too much detail, it's aaalll good. It's just time man.
B.Basher Reviewed by B.Basher on . not as crazy about sex as I am? Ive been in a longterm relationship with this girl and its pretty serious. If I continue on the path were going on I will prolly end up marrying this girl. We get along in all parts of life and we both have similar career goals and passions. We know were comfortable living with each other for a long time to come... This girl grew up in a very closeminded, catholic ,overprotected household and pretty much had "sex is bad" jammed down her throat for as long as she can rememeber. So as you Rating: 5