i think it is so sad that so many people (mainly women) are raised to think sex is such a horrible thing. i could go on and on about this, but really all that needs to be said is that it's sad, and a lot of problems (and divorces) could be avoided in society if everyone had real knowledge about sex, and an unbiased view of it.

ps: that book I mentioned before, Sex for One, would be super beneficial in your case, I am sure of it. It's a really interesting read just for the woman's stories alone, but the discussions of sex-repressed women are totally...eye-opening and special.