[quote=someuser]renting and watching adult films together... Let her pick out what she is comfortable with and they try and reenact it in real-life...

This is a great idea, but if she isn't really comfortable with the regular porn (not many women are), try these videos called Better Sex videos, by the Sinclair Intimacy Institute. They are instructional videos, but they are really hot nonetheless and would give you guys great ideas of things to try.