This decision really shapes your life and will ultimately be one of the most important decisions of your life. i feel VERY strongly about that. I really feel like you should suck it up and stay with your father and just do what he says for now. If i were giving advice to a close friend in this situation I would tell him to play it cool for a little bit and if your friends mean that much to you when the smoke clears you can attempt to bargain with your dad and see the old friends again... REALLY THINK THIS THROUGH MAN, THIS IS SUCH A BIG THING. Friends move and change but your family will always be there! it sounds like your father really loves you and wants the best for you (after reading the whole coke thing)