When my girl was a baby I slowed down. I was sort of freakin' out at the newness of being a dad and whatnot. (Used to think 'what if I have to take her to the ER or something and I'm completely wasted?') As she got older and I got to know her better I relaxed more and started smoking more. I don't smoke during the day as much but when she's in bed, it's puff time! Peace!