Yeah, I agree that a nice drink or two is in order early on the date because you'll both be nervous. And ideally, maybe you can get to know her a bit more before the date even occurs so you will feel a bit more comfortable. Go and chat her up some more at work tomorrow if you can.

Hey, I know you said you can't talk to girls, but frankly, it sounds like you did alright for yourself. There are plenty of guys who can't get as far as you did, so you should congratulate yourself. That takes nerve to put yourself out there and ask a girl out. And she said yes!!

OK, date tips? Be a gentleman. Open car doors and restaurant doors. Make sure she has what she needs at dinner. Hold out her chair for her. This is such a key to what ladies look for early in a relationship. A guy who goes out of his way to be a gentleman is proving that he will make an extra effort to make sure she's happy. This signals excellent bedroom potential down the road, which is why women find this so sexy. A guy who'll hold your chair out for you is the same guy who'll go the extra mile to help you reach the high note when you're horizontal.

Other than that, just be yourself and let her see your personality. Talk about stuff that interests you and ask her about what interests her. My girlfriends in college and I used to have to give thumbs-downs to guys who spent the whole date talking about themselves or pounding their chests to show us how great they believed they were, and sometimes when you're nervous, it's easy to want to fill empty air time with talk. Make sure she's doing at least half the talking. If she likes you, she'll give you signals that she does. Just go according to those. Make sure you thank her for the date and try and get a reading on if she might like to go out again. Oh, and don't get drunk on the date, and make sure your breath is good when you pick her up. After you eat, especially if you plan to try and kiss her, have a mint on hand or something. Breath is important early in relationships. Oh! And be nice to the waiters and others you encounter. Girls notice stuff like that, too.

Sorry for such a long answer. I wish I could have a first date again!!! Dating and that exciting crushy stage are a lot of fun. Enjoy that.
birdgirl73 Reviewed by birdgirl73 on . need some help guys alright here it goes today at work i had to down the hall to this other office and get some shit and while i was there i saw this girl i hadnt seen working there before so i talked to her a little and called down to her office later and eventually i asked her out on a date!! i am completely fucked man, i CAN NOT talk to girls at all. i was really shakin right before i asked her of she wanted to go out. so i was wonderin if you all had any tips to make this date run smooth. im probably gonna Rating: 5