I flamed you for hiding your marijuana use from your girlfriend. The reason is simple: If you can't be totally honest with her then what makes you think you have a future together? Are you going to hide like a coward every time you want to smoke? It's just going to lead to trouble. As for the term "fag", is that really necessary? Couldn't you have used fucker or asshole? What have you got against homosexuals? It seems en vogue among a few members of this site to be closeted, misogynistic homophobes. Why is that? Happy growing and Peace.