i am going to move this to the parenting forum....i think maybe there you can talk about this some more and maybe you will see that the whole idea is wrong as it is illegal..things happen for a reason, just like there are rules for a reason....if you let your son drive and something happens, dont you realize you are ultimately responsible? it is your future earnings they could sue against, your home they can take, so on and so forth....this is why i think this merits conversation in a parenting forum....

princess