i teach my kids what they need to know
my son who is 10 is very mature when it comes to marijuana
i am open about my use and it is not an issue
we live in a place where mostly everyone does some wrong shit
when my sons peers ask him to get high or drunk he will be comfortable
saying no cuz he really aint interested.

i think it looks worse when parents hide shit like that cuz it looks bad
when the truth does come out. if you always say not to do something
and then get caught doing it then all the respect you earned is lost
just be honest and live righteous and smoke on patners