i hate kids

[zeitgeist]

I love kids. And these spoiled kids are like this alot because of their parents.
When I have kids they are rarely gonna get shit and are gonna have to work for everything so they will appreciate things in life

zeitgeist Reviewed by zeitgeist on 02-29-2008. i hate kids yes, i do. not babies, babies are cool, but kids ages 2-10. they piss me off... a lot. anyone else share this feeling? Rating: 5

[LdyMarsRN]

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yes, i do. not babies, babies are cool, but kids ages 2-10. they piss me off... a lot. anyone else share this feeling?

Did your Mom hate YOU? We all start out as kids; that's when we are learning. Who we grow up to be is influenced by everything that happens during our childhood. I sincerely hope that you are never any part of a child's life. We don't want the future generations to grow up with hate in their hearts. :hippy:

[pass_the_dubbie]

I don't have kids and certainly don't "plan" to for quite some time although I do enjoy looking after kids. I don't have any younger siblings or even younger cousins, on my mums side at least, but i've spent a lot of time around friends kids. I was even there for my friends nephew sayin his first word, it was "mummy" and it occured when my friend upset the poor little guy.

I was listening to music and resting outside a supermarket last year and there was a two or three year old hanging out the window of a car. I didn't know why but she was drumming against the side of the car, then I realised it was because I was drumming to the music(I really can't help it)...it was really cool and made me feel good.

Anyway I couldn't hate kids, theres something about that innocence they all have thats great, but that's just the side i've experienced...not really been around when a kid is crying or misbehaving etc...ugh, I started writing and now I don't now how to end this post...

maybe a little cow and chicken quote..
"END"

[Breukelen advocaat]

To the young guys: I'm older than most here and have nothing to gain by lying to you. Not having kids was the smartest thing I ever did. Don't listen to these duds tell you about how wonderful being a father is. They're bullshitting you. Over half of then are either divorced, separated, or on the way out the door to face years of alimony and child-support payments to the mother, who usually has all the rights. Even some of the guys right here on this thread have been divorced and lost custody since they posted how wonderful fatherhood is last year. You've got to be tough. Don't get yourself bamboozled into having children by girlfriends or wives, because it's the biggest mistake you'll probably ever make. Get your own place and learn to live independently and, if you have patience and try, you'll meet a woman that won't want them either. They are the best type because they love you for yourself, not your ability to support a brood of obnoxious sprogs.

Remember the old saying, "Misery loves company", when guys tell you how wonderful being a father is. It's total hogwash.
Don't believe it. You will be saddled with incredible responsibilities, with few rights. Basically, the modern father is just a beast of burden. If that's what you want, go ahead and have them, but don't say you weren't warned.

If the system was different, it wouldn't be as bad - but right now it sucks: BIG TIME.

I am trim and healthy, feel no more than about 30 years old, and retired at 53 years old with financial security. This is because I DID NOT HAVE KIDS!

[katyowns]

I'm a young woman (22) who knows I never want children. I don't hate kids at all, I just never want any of my own. I have nephews I love and I like my friend's children also. I am with a partner who feels the same way I do. We don't feel like children are a necessary part of a healthy relationship/marriage.

I swear to goodness though people just don't want to accept the fact that there are those out there who just don't want kids, period. Not everyone is going to "change their mind". I hate being told "oh it's different when you have one of your own, you'll see!". It's so damn condescending and presumptuous. I respect others choice to have children, so I expect the same respect in my choice not to.

1 more thing, to finish off this mini-rant, my LEAST favorite comment is being told that you're not a whole, complete woman until you give birth, most often heard from older women. I don't think people really understand how insulting that idea/way of thinking is.

live and let live, damn.

/rant, phew, thats out of my system

[Breukelen advocaat]

Another very insulting thing is when childfree women decide to have a hysterectomy, for whatever reason, and people say, "I'm so sorry!" becuse they think that she is becoming less of a woman due of the inability to breed. This happened to my wife, and she told them immediatly that there's nothing to be "sorry" about, and she was never interested in being a parent in her entire life.

[katyowns]

Another very insulting thing is when childfree women decide to have a hysterectomy, for whatever reason, and people say, "I'm so sorry!" becuse they think that she is becoming less of a woman due of the inability to breed. This happened to my wife, and she told them immediatly that there's nothing to be "sorry" about, and she was never interested in being a parent in her entire life.

I'm being sterilized this year and I couldn't be happier!

[Breukelen advocaat]

I'm being sterilized this year and I couldn't be happier!

Congratulations! :thumbsup:

[KL4D4]

1 more thing, to finish off this mini-rant, my LEAST favorite comment is being told that you're not a whole, complete woman until you give birth, most often heard from older women.

I don't think people really understand how insulting that idea/way of thinking is.

However can you see what these older women are saying? It's understand not wanting to have children. Yet at the same time, I can only assume a great majority of women would identify with the pleasure of having children.

[katyowns]

However can you see what these older women are saying? It's understand not wanting to have children. Yet at the same time, I can only assume a great majority of women would identify with the pleasure of having children.

I understand why they say what they do, but I also know and understand that them saying it is completely off-base and unfounded, made solely on personal anecdotal evidence. Being in the minority of a group does not mean you are less a part of that group.

I understand why people want children, I like kids. I have nothing against them, but I know for certain that a woman who's given birth is no more of a woman than me, and thats just fact. When I ask them if they feel the same way about women who adopt because they can't have children, they usually can't answer me, which leads me to note that they haven't thought out their beliefs too well.

Comments that try to undermine someones sense of their gender and femininity are ALWAYS uncalled for and I don't feel like there's any place for them, I'm sorry.