Good fix, Skink. It's true that lots of women feel it's their duty to try and "mold" or change guys instead of simply finding one that fits their needs a little better. Not sure what that's about. Fear, perhaps, of continuing to look. The thing is, a long-term relationship is a heck of a lot happier when you let the other person simply be himself. I learned that early in life, fortunately, and I think that's why we've stayed married for 24 years.