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WARNING: Don't follow virtually ANY of the advice in in regards to picking up women. it is for losers who are just interested in banging as many women as possible. HOWEVER, it DOES give you an excellent frame of reference on how many women do think about men. I will repeat: PLEASE DON'T follow the actual advice in this book. This book, will if anything, teach you that being yourself is the best remedy for your woman problems (and i know you've heard that before, but its true). Trust me, just read it. It will change the way you look at girls.

Lastly, there are PLENTY of years left in your life to get laid and find a relationship. Everything is going to be all right

SL

this warning if very true... alot of advice is just for having sex fast which i rlly dont want to do... im a bit of a hopeless romantic myself, but i listen to that advice and it just kind of helps u get into the rite frame of mind.... that what u need is confidence....
i mean i couldnt believe it... i was rlly unconfident then i just sat down and said to myself "for fucks sake i can do this, i am not pathetic or any of that shit, getting turned down a few times doesnt mean shit... it just happens" and its not like magically i was picking up girls left and right but i noticed a diference jsut talking to them, and i got a girlfriend... i do need to do this every-so-often cause i just naturally have lower self confidence.... wen ur on the right track youll no it.... sometimes after ive gotten out of somthing ill look back at what i did to start it and it just seems illogical, like i dont understand why i did what i did... u just do and feel and thats the only way you can no... everyone is diferent and diferent things will work for diferent ppl... another thing that helps is to be able to read tones, facial expressions, and body language...
if u cant think of what to say just play off things she has said... u can carry conversations for well over an hour just based on things she has said... i have done it several times...

most advice doenst work for any given situation... just the confidence part...