Desperate times call for desperate measures, live your life for yourself. Knowledge is gained through experiance. Try combining rationalizing with experiancing. The only person who can help you is yourself, you have to be dedicated. Try, try and then try again. There is no rejection, trust me, you must get over rejection before you'll proceed. If it happens, move on to the next girl and don't let it get you down, even though i KNOW how hard that is. Start slow, go out, go have some conversations with beautiful women. Practise, practise, practise. Get some phone numbers, work your way from there. Seriously man, don't give up and don't let it get you down. I use to think 'can i be truly happy without a women in my life?' i use to think not but now i see that i can be happy without women, they're not everything.