well its worth a shot....the online dating services..like match.com and shit and eharmony...now i know they soudn bullshit, but for someone your age wtih that seems to be a little shy, these websites let you post your info and pics and helps you to find people that you would naturally get along wtih. i KNOW these sites work becuase my sister is happily engaged with a man she met through match.com and they LOVE each other to death..the sites really do match you up with great potential partners, so if you have the time to do it, i say go for it man..if not, get a job working wtih the public, and when a cute girl comes along, run some game