ok personally i have not ever had these problems but one of my friends seems to be sorta having this problem. basically i think yu should go to a few bars/clubs liek birdgirl said put yourself in places wher your most likley to interact with women.

it depends how you want your first time to be? the easyest way would probably to find a local get-around at a club/bar and go sumwhere with her to have sex, this is not advised if you want your first time to be special as to these sort of girls 'its just a fuck'.